Real Quick. I Want to Tell You Something...
Or Maybe let's process it together. Tell Me What Comes Up.
How come humans today can’t have conversations? Just say what they feel? Mean what they say? We can’t make statements to what is true for our own lived experience anymore. Losing out on flavor for this world.
Why?
I have come to believe it’s due to the fear of someone else implying a meaning behind what is true for us. That then meaning is defended against by that very individual who demands you be accountable. Remember, accountable for what? What did you do besides express what is true for you? The meaning they made with your truth became what they punish YOU for..
Let that sink in for a moment.
We as a species do not feel safe to communicate with each other. Language, the very ability that makes us vibrant beings…It vanishes... We tiptoe, bite our tongue—Swallow… We have been conditioned to believe. Speak and you risk being punished for not being in sameness as the rest of the group. You get called labels. These are really glorified rumination loops of people who never trained the stallion of their mind to…Settle. Down.
Is the world ugly. yes
Is there injustice? yes
But riddle me this.
What are we doing in the mind with what we see in the world?
How often do we reflect on our own mind activity and whether it is being casted on to others as definitive truth because we “feel that way?”
Disagree = you must be a racist?
Really? or is that your protector part holding the mic?
The polarity is so extreme I can’t help but scream to myself.
How is this not a Cluster B crisis.
HOW CAN THE COLLECTIVE NOT SEE IT?
I feel these days some conversations are bait traps for people — tests to see how far someone can push you. You can pick this data clue up in the tone: hostile, instigative, agreeable but clearly from an ulterior motive or agenda. This energy is not pure. This energy is what dictates the emotional climate so the collective can’t reach each other. Can’t speak.
It mixes with the wounds from past lovers, caregivers, friends.
I have seen it in the way strangers comment to strangers online, responding as if the other person’s words, work, performance, etc., is a direct attack against them. Because their amygdala sees the ghost of what really wounded them, not what is actually happening. Many of us never sit with those wounds, which makes it easier to cast that part onto others.
One truth I have known to realize through my work with others.
Most of us have our heads so far up our own ass to make things a personal attack against others intentionally. Majority of us are stuck trying to untangle the loops in our own mind.
Till next time
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See you in the next one data collectors.
