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krieg's avatar

when you had enough you flexed had too, but mama always reminded us why we got a beating ( This is for showing your ASS). right before you got spanked. she knew we still had to though....

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Savannah Kizzie-Rai | LPC's avatar

Who said engage with the narcissist? Seems like a lot of assumptions which are distortions. I am not responsible for the meaning you make.

Yes, It’s a truth… and? At what cost to yourself do we keep with the statements? It’s not victim blaming if it’s asking you to just reflect…that’s all.

Is reflection that much of a threat?

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Savannah Kizzie-Rai | LPC's avatar

I want to pause for a moment. Your comment is coming from a place that has me asking... why are you here? This may be the "ass" showing up. You can explore my past work. But, If you believe every persons bit of work must name your ache and the ache you deem is valid. You may just be highlighting the level of vulnerable narcissism my work uncovers. There is no bypassing what you named simply because it wasn't written in this one essay. I just want to remind you that. It invites whatever the reader is already holding. Seems like you are holding a lot of hostility. You are allowed to feel how you feel. Dismissing my truth to validate your wound.. is emotional colonization. Are you allowed to perceived this as dismissive and being "dressed up as therapeutic insight"? Absolutely...Do I have to pick that up? I don't...